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Btw i dunno why, but i thought the legal age for marriage was 16 here? But if u wanna get married before then u need parental permission and tones of paperwork ... But u can get married before whtever the legal age be.

[the_truth]

 needanswers, on 30 June 2011 - 01:05 PM, said:

Hi there,
just wondering if teemagers have sexual intercourse before marriage and the female ends up being pregnant. What should they do with the baby?
Also if she allowed to take pills before they even know about the baby or after it?
If say they live in Australia where the legal marriage age is 18, is there a way they can islamically get married and then raise the kid so it wont be a Bstrd?
And like say their just teenagers, they had sexual intercourse and are say monogamous and are very mentally and emotionally dependant on each other, and I mean REALLY dependant on each other.
What would you say would be the next best step or course of action for the two? As in is marriage really the best thing at the age of 17/18 ?

Thanks for all your help peeps/

Asalaamu Alaikum, it is obvious that these two have done a major sin which they should repent sincerely for. If they die in such a state then surely they will be doomed. How shamful they should feel infront of Allah for committing such a sin.

In Islam abortion if foribidden so the baby must not be killed for it is not its fault that it was concieved in such an irresponsible way. Therefore the both of you must repent sincerely for having sex before marriage and you must keep the baby and not abort it.

You must inform both parents and go about marriage in the right manner. You must never marry without their consent for marriage is only valid with parents consent as it must be announced and the parents must be involved.

So you must take responsibility for your actions and you must repent and ask of Allah to forgive you and then you must go about marriage i the right manner through your parents and NOT have any contact with each other before nikah.

Do not waste your youth for this is the best time in your lives to go towards Allah. If you waste this precious time then surely you will regret it FOREVER!

So do everything from now on to please Allah and refrain from anything which angers or displeases him. Get closer to Allah by doing all of your prayers and make the hereafter your goal. Know that Allah watched everything that you do so be aware of him and think twice before committing any sin.

Ask of Allah in dua to do what is best for you and put your trust and faith in him.

And Allah knows best in all matters