 Sisters would you consider being a 2nd wife?, Would you marry a brother who has another wife? |
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 Feb 10 2007, 11:09 PM
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formerly 'known'  Group: Brothers Posts: 13,423 Joined: 23-August 06 From: East London Member No.: 743  |
 all,i thought it would be interesting to see how many sisters would consider being a 2nd wife as its allowed in islam. if not, why not? and im asking the bros aswell if they would consider a 2nd wife. if not, why not? PS. admins, please delete if you think this thread is inappropriate here, or change the poll to make it less free mixed.  
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Feb 10 2007, 11:16 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 10,661 Joined: 28-August 06 From: Umm Sara'r khoiljar bitre <3 Member No.: 754 |
no because erm... personal reasons, i shall explain later
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Feb 10 2007, 11:18 PM
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formerly 'known' Group: Brothers Posts: 13,423 Joined: 23-August 06 From: East London Member No.: 743 |
i am trying to add a poll for the sisters, but it didnt work. its an actual poll so that sisters can say it anonimously. waiting for admins help lol!
for your reply.
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Feb 10 2007, 11:21 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 10,661 Joined: 28-August 06 From: Umm Sara'r khoiljar bitre <3 Member No.: 754 |
oh i voted already
 oops!
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Feb 10 2007, 11:25 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 8,483 Joined: 7-May 06 From: UK Member No.: 510 |
^yeah me too
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Feb 10 2007, 11:27 PM
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Stone Group: Sisters Posts: 492 Joined: 14-November 06 From: UK london Member No.: 947 |
man dis is jus 1 big fat NOOOO!!!! lol cnt believe u actually thot of dat brother!
n sis roohiya u took d words ryt out of my mouth. i doubt ders ne sisters dat wud say yes 2b honest. n if der is man i wud rate her coz u hav 2 hav a lot of strength!!!!!!!!!!! fi amanillah |
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Feb 10 2007, 11:28 PM
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Stone Group: Sisters Posts: 492 Joined: 14-November 06 From: UK london Member No.: 947 |
sis mabz n roohiya u2 so funny. i c d total votes at d bottom 2 LOL. check ur selves inda mirror agen, ur guys aint bros
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Feb 10 2007, 11:29 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 8,483 Joined: 7-May 06 From: UK Member No.: 510 |
i know a sister who's in a polygamous marriage, and she doesnt mind it.
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Feb 10 2007, 11:33 PM
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wow. I actually know loads of sisters who wouldn't mind being a second wife at all. Allah bless them. The way I see it, it is allowed from Allah so alhamdulillah.
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Feb 10 2007, 11:33 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 4,606 Joined: 24-November 06 Member No.: 979 |
no way
nuhuh naihee |
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Feb 10 2007, 11:34 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 8,483 Joined: 7-May 06 From: UK Member No.: 510 |
UmmT is that a yes?
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Feb 10 2007, 11:34 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 10,661 Joined: 28-August 06 From: Umm Sara'r khoiljar bitre <3 Member No.: 754 |
i dont knw whether i should say yes or no :S if i get married and suddenly i find out that my husband got married again il probably divorce him, thats just my opinion, I hope this doesnt happen inshAllah, and if a guy proposes to me and hes already married i will reject him coz i dnt think i can stand sharing my husband, i dnt knw whether im commitiing a sin by admitting this but Allahu Alim... il explain later, but now im off to bed
ma3salama
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Feb 10 2007, 11:37 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 8,483 Joined: 7-May 06 From: UK Member No.: 510 |
mahbuba, i dont think its a sin to not want your husband to marry again.
however, if a woman couldnt bare children and her husband wanted to marry again, then its a different story... |
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Feb 10 2007, 11:45 PM
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formerly NAYABI Group: Sisters Posts: 2,983 Joined: 25-April 06 From: United Kingdom Member No.: 494 |
NOO WAY!!!!!
i knw muhammed (SAW) had so many wifes n i respect that. but I personally dn't like SHARING HUSBAND n plus knwing ur husband has another wife on da side not a BIG FAN of that, plus i will get jealous easliy.  if a man has 2 wifes, he gotta treat them fair n equally n loved, that will b hard on him to do that becoz a wife can get jealous quickly, then there is a BIG problem cuming ahead for da husband.  lolllzzif ur his first wife, i heared that he gotta ask ur premission to get married again ( MY answer would b NO) soo yh guy gotta ask da first wifeyyyyy premission. GD LUCK BRO'Z whoever wanna get married more than once |
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Feb 10 2007, 11:47 PM
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Comet Group: Sisters Posts: 8,483 Joined: 7-May 06 From: UK Member No.: 510 |
QUOTE i will get jealouse easliy. i second that |
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