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Sisters would you consider being a 2nd wife? Would you marry a brother who has another wife?

Poll: Brothers would you consider having a 2nd wife/Sisters would you mind being a 2nd/3rd/4th wife (196 member(s) have cast votes)

Brothers and Sister would you......

  1. Brothers: YES I would consider 2nd/3rd/4th wife (32 votes [16.33%])

    Percentage of vote: 16.33%

  2. Brothers: NO I would not consider 2nd/3rd/4th wife (45 votes [22.96%])

    Percentage of vote: 22.96%

  3. Brothers: MAYBE (20 votes [10.20%])

    Percentage of vote: 10.20%

  4. Sisters: I would NOT MIND being 2nd/3rd/4th wife (23 votes [11.73%])

    Percentage of vote: 11.73%

  5. Sisters: I WOULD MIND being 2nd/3rd/4th wife (58 votes [29.59%])

    Percentage of vote: 29.59%

  6. Sisters: NOT SURE (18 votes [9.18%])

    Percentage of vote: 9.18%

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:09 AM

:icon_smile_salam: all,

i thought it would be interesting to see how many sisters would consider being a 2nd wife as its allowed in islam. if not, why not?

and im asking the bros aswell if they would consider a 2nd wife. if not, why not?

PS. admins, please delete if you think this thread is inappropriate here, or change the poll to make it less free mixed.

:jazakAllah:

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:16 AM

no because erm... personal reasons, i shall explain later :)

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:18 AM

i am trying to add a poll for the sisters, but it didnt work. its an actual poll so that sisters can say it anonimously. waiting for admins help lol!

:jazakAllah: for your reply.

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:21 AM

oh i voted already :lol: oops!

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:25 AM

^yeah me too :rolleyes:

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:27 AM

man dis is jus 1 big fat NOOOO!!!! lol cnt believe u actually thot of dat brother!

n sis roohiya u took d words ryt out of my mouth. i doubt ders ne sisters dat wud say yes 2b honest. n if der is man i wud rate her coz u hav 2 hav a lot of strength!!!!!!!!!!!

fi amanillah

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:28 AM

sis mabz n roohiya u2 so funny. i c d total votes at d bottom 2 LOL. check ur selves inda mirror agen, ur guys aint bros :P

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:29 AM

i know a sister who's in a polygamous marriage, and she doesnt mind it.

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:33 AM

wow. I actually know loads of sisters who wouldn't mind being a second wife at all. Allah bless them. The way I see it, it is allowed from Allah so alhamdulillah.

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:33 AM

no way

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:34 AM

UmmT is that a yes?

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:34 AM

i dont knw whether i should say yes or no :S if i get married and suddenly i find out that my husband got married again il probably divorce him, thats just my opinion, I hope this doesnt happen inshAllah, and if a guy proposes to me and hes already married i will reject him coz i dnt think i can stand sharing my husband, i dnt knw whether im commitiing a sin by admitting this but Allahu Alim... il explain later, but now im off to bed :) ma3salama

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:37 AM

mahbuba, i dont think its a sin to not want your husband to marry again.

however, if a woman couldnt bare children and her husband wanted to marry again, then its a different story...

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:45 AM

NOO WAY!!!!!

i knw muhammed (SAW) had so many wifes n i respect that.
but I personally dn't like SHARING HUSBAND n plus knwing ur husband has another wife on da side not a BIG FAN of that, plus i will get jealous easliy. :icon_smile_lol:

if a man has 2 wifes, he gotta treat them fair n equally n loved, that will b hard on him to do that becoz a wife can get jealous quickly, then there is a BIG problem cuming ahead for da husband. :icon_smile_sign_grrr: lolllzz

if ur his first wife, i heared that he gotta ask ur premission to get married again ( MY answer would b NO) soo yh guy gotta ask da first wifeyyyyy premission.
GD LUCK BRO'Z whoever wanna get married more than once

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Posted 11 February 2007 - 12:47 AM

Quote

i will get jealouse easliy.


i second that
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